I’ve always been curious about what women think about guys masturbating together. Over the years, I’ve asked quite a few women about it, and the reactions have been mixed.

I’m 38 and single. I first started doing it with a friend when I was 18. My girlfriend at the time found out and actually thought it was hot. She liked hearing about it, and talking about it often made our sex life more exciting.

We talked about having a threesome, but it never happened. She seemed to enjoy the fantasy more than the idea of actually doing it.

A few years later, I started doing it again with another friend from work. That was when I became more comfortable with mutual masturbation and experimenting with different things together.

Women seem to have very different opinions

Since then, I’ve mostly dated women casually, and I’ve sometimes asked them what they think about guys masturbating together.

More than half seemed either turned on by the idea or simply saw it as something some guys do. A few thought it was strange, though. One woman even told me she ended a relationship after finding out her boyfriend was doing it with friends.

So there definitely isn’t one opinion.

I’m also curious whether women see online cam-to-cam experiences the same way. Sites like JerkOff2gether make it possible for adults to connect through live video chat without meeting in person.

I’d be interested to hear what other women think. Is it hot, funny, strange, or just no big deal?

And for the guys here: have you ever told a wife or girlfriend about masturbating with a friend? How did she react?