The other day I ended up on a Loveawake dating site forum debate about how we should resist making unreasonable actions in our lives in order to improve ourselves. It made me think about how social media has really “paved the way” for constant unreasonable actions certain women make in their love lives.

Although a lot of women (and even men) don’t pull some of the insane things my ex has pulled online, there are many instances where people do something online outside of their usual patterns that make them look just as crazy as my ex is.

Ladies, if you want to avoid looking like crazy broads, stop making these unreasonable actions online a reality:

Creating Fake Profiles On Social Media Accounts To Cyber Stalk Your Ex

Man, I miss the days of MSN. If you do not know what that is, it is basically the Canadian equivalent to AIM. Anytime your ex would harass you, you could instantly block them and because we were less egotistical back then, we would rarely accept friend invites from people we didn’t know. Well now with Facebook, exes are actually creating fake profile simply to see their ex’s relationship status, their tagged photos and of course to cry over how pretty their new girlfriends are. If you think turning yourself into the “Catfish” woman so you can trash your ex on his wall is normal, then you have a major problem.  Also, if you actually believe that he has no idea what you are doing, then you are more deluded than I thought.

You’re Always Narrowing Down Your Type On Dating Personals Sites

Now that online dating is less taboo, a lot of people are finding dates on dating personals sites. There is nothing wrong with that, but what is wrong  is narrowing down your type instead of being open to more possibilities.  I have a theory about “types.”  Most people would say that the type of person they are most attracted to resembles the first person they fell in love with, but really if you think about it, they really resemble the first person who first broke their hearts.  Although no one would ever admit it, most people pursue doppelgangers of their exes hoping that their clones will be able to correct the mistakes their ex made in the past.  If you’re looking for a “type,” then you are stuck in the past.  Plain and simple.

Writing Pitiful Quotes On Twitter or on your Facebook Wall

We all have bad days.  We all have bad breakups. But what differentiates a mature person from an immature person is self-control especially when it comes down to social media accounts.  When you put a quote down on your Twitter and Facebook about how broken-hearted you are, you should know that no matter how many comments or likes you get, that you really just look like a self-piteous attention-seeker.  I know in the past there were women I was attracted to and was instantly turned off when I saw how they display for all to see how sad they are about a break-up.  It’s okay to feel sad–just don’t broadcast it.

Sending E-cards To An Ex

Many women would say that they send e-cards for special occasions to exes just to show they can still be friendly. But let’s talk about the REAL reason why you ladies send e-cards. Is the reason because you really want to send a special birthday greeting to your ex or is the real reason why you send e-cards is because you know that sending a message through a third party is guaranteed to end up in your ex’s email box—even if they had personally blocked all the email addresses you created? Do you do it because you feel like you did a selfless deed or because you get a rush when you get an automated message saying that they had opened your card?

Trust me, if I know about this–a lot of other guys know about it too.

I know a lot of you make think I’m the biggest dick on the face of the planet for writing this list, but I just don’t want any of you lovely and intelligent ladies to follow in my ex’s footsteps. 

The best advice I can give you, is from Nando himself.  1. Identify Your ‘IN THE BOX’ behavior.  2. IDENTIFY THE OUT OF THE BOX BEHAVIOR and 3. SET YOUR REASONABLE ACTIONS IN MOTION.